After being downsized back in October, I have had a lot of time to evaluate my life and how I am living it. I really didn't like what I saw. Yes, I was that successful corporate exec that had the nice suits and a wad of money in my purse, and yes, we could have anything we wanted... entertainment, gourmet meals, weekends at the spa/resorts, hops to CA for a little sun and sand. But was I happy?? Yes and No - I was happy to have such a great family, two healthy girls and an extremely loving, sweet husband. But I didn't have ME! My stress level was off the charts. I can't even begin to explain how different and GREAT I feel today. It's like the real me has come out to play and she ain't leaving.
How did I get to this place? First thing we did was understand - where are we financially.
How do you understand where you are financially? It really isn't too difficult. A good way to get started is to analyze your last year's income and expenses and create a budget. I was shocked to see that with a few tweaks here and there, things look pretty good. I admit we won't be taking as many spur of the moment trips to the coast or eating out 15 times a month, but that's okay by us. We will also have to be more conscious of getting the best deal/price instead of just pulling out the wallet on impulse. The deals are there if you look.
So as I continue to move through this new way of life I will keep you posted... share anything that may be helpful. It's my responsibility to give back as much as, if not more than I receive.
Have a great day and SMILE!
Here is a sample of what we used...

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